What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. A lot of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, fixed patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't really about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. You never know how it will turn out. It is not the technique or the desired sequence of massaging that is very important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, like always has a suitable reaction. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is required. Sufficient is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason typically take a very surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits ahead of time
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limitations. This is human and is also necessary (check out the post on guarding borders. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is a proper intake, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological limits, as well as make sure for clearness about physical borders. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is likewise completely okay (however hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, always with respect for (shared) boundaries. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays a crucial role once again. In tantra massage we have fun with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Typically resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore a lot more. In fact, you "learn" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is precisely what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is totally enabled! A tantra massage is normally good, in some cases delicious. We, therefore, welcome you to completely delight in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, smell, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (focused on enjoyment complete satisfaction).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well due to the fact that you are truly very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is an occupation apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Offer excellent conditions (physically, however also mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Offer feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, don't attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy flow.
* Respect borders, set clear limits in advance. Our masseuses are mainly very open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, understand that it can end up differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the whole body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are very important! A lot can turn up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Avoid limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no check over here sex! Practice makes perfect. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply combination moments (just doing nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest do not rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your whole body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (however you will not go to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often totally empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing impact. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries come to the surface. There might be a psychological release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you learn what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The whole body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, overjoyed state of being of the recipient.
* Usually leading to a terrific physical, mental wellness (of both).